Despite the advice of older, wiser women, many girls still think they can win the heart of a player. For those girls, I’m going to tell you how it’s done. First let me give you some back story. I used to be a notorious player. In many circles, I still am notorious. I’d date multiple girls at the same time, sometimes girls who knew each other. I felt absolutely no guilt about doing so. Then something happened, or rather someone happened. I started falling for a girl I was dating.

How do you win a player? Let’s start with the basics. You must be very attractive. Being cute doesn’t cut it. When men are asked to describe you, they should use words like hot, sexy, beautiful, gorgeous, etc. You can’t be a slut, not even close. If your notch count is in the double digits, you’re done. If your notch count is even approaching double digits, you’re out of the running. A player has been with enough promiscuous women to understand the great risk in committing to them.

These two criteria alone will eliminate the vast majority of women. There’s one final element. You must be nice. Yep, just nice. So many girls are catty bitches that just by being nice you can set yourself apart. If you’re considerate and appreciative, you will stand out. Unfortunately, very attractive girls know that they will get male attention even if they act like bitches, so many of them behave like little tyrants. But when it comes to get married, those girls are going to lose out.

n order to win a player, you have to be better than the alternative. No, the alternative is not some other hot girl. The alternative is a variety of women. Men value variety. You must be better than variety. You have to be attractive enough to maintain his sexual interest. You have to be chaste enough to be worth investing in. You have to be pleasant enough to spend time with. That’s the key. A man should believe that he would regret giving you up, not in a week, not in a month